You Never Know Who Wants to Contact You!

Whenever I'm doing mediumship for someone and they say they don;t care who they talk to, "whoever comes through", I never know what I'm in for! Neither do they! This is a great example of why you have to have an open mind as to who's trying to contact  you. People get an idea in their head, and then start to dismiss the information that their being given.

Recently, I had such an occurrence. After doing a general reading about her situation and future, the client wanted to see who would come through. I described the woman, first coming through wearing a long ball gown, like for a ball, with her hair up in a bun. She then showed herself as older wearing a housecoat and slippers. At first she thought it might be her mother, and then dismissed that. I was getting that it might be a friend of her mothers, and she stated her mother had no friends. Then I was getting possibly a neighbor of her mothers, she stated her mother didn't talk to her neighbors. She then showed me Easter eggs, and the woman said, "that means nothing to me, we're Orthodox Jews"!  I then saw the woman tending a rose garden, and she was unable to make a connection as to who it might be. Suddenly it clicked for the woman! She used to have a neighbor growing up that lived next to her mother, and she brings roses to the woman's daughter every year at Easter! Hello!!!! Nothing is random!

This was the girls mother coming through, and she wanted to send a message to her daughter in regards to a family scrapbook the girl had started and then stopped making. She then also remembered, the girl only has one picture of her mother in the house, in a long ball dress with her hair up in a bun as I described earlier! You just never know who wants to give you a message!

Love Never Dies

love never dies! Like energy, it goes on forever into the afterlife! It's very rare when I bring through someone's parents. and they actually kiss each other on the lips in front of me. Usually they put their arms around each other, or the husband might give his wife a peck on the cheek to show me that they loved each other when they were here. Most of the people I bring through are NOT prone to public displays of affection!

Tonight I brought through someone's parents that actually had me in tears! The love that emanated from them was amazing! They were very much in love when they were here, and wanted the world to know it, and the same thing holds true on the other side.

How sad it is that most couples don't share that kind of love or connection. I truly believe that love is the key to happiness, both here and in the afterlife. It's also the answer to any question you can ask.
Truly, Love can heal the world!

Namaste'

The Spirits Direct Me to Information I Need

I love how Spirit directs me to the information that I need when I need it. I recently did a large Gallery reading, and although everyone seemed very happy that  received messages, I did receive a couple of emails that I truly took to heart. What I do is not easy work. It takes a lot of energy, and can be physically and emotionally draining. One audience member was upset that they didn't get a reading, although all shows clearly state that everyone won't. There just isn't enough time, and I try to do as many as possible.
They also didn't seem to understand how Meduumship works, although I do try to explain before I start giving readings.
It's not an exact science. For the most part, depending on the energy of the spirit coming through, I'm given images and pieces of words. I now have to determine what the meaning is. If for example they're showing me a car, I'm not "fishing" when I ask the meaning! Did they drive that kind of car, did they sell cars, were they hit by a car, is someone else driving their car? Unless the person I'm reading for can give me some clarity, I have no idea what they're trying to give me, and it makes it more difficult to connect the next images or symbols they're giving me. No Medium can be 100% accurate, because it is based on interpretation of the symbols we're shown.
Most of what I receive is symbols and images very quickly that I need to interpret. Very few Spirits are strong enough to give me lots of words, and when they do, I pretty much let them speak through me, because the come so fast!
I also give to much sometimes, which I was told through another email makes me inaccurate! Again it's interpretation. I saw a woman with a large beautiful hat, posing like she was on the cover of vogue. To me it represented that she was really into fashion, which was confirmed by the daughter. Another audience member however, took it literally that her mother would wear big hats, and stated that I was wrong!
Spirit directed me to one of John Edward's (no relation) books, (One Last Time), where I read how he actually sees and interprets messages. I thought somehow I was missing something. We see things the same way. He has just as much difficulty interpreting some symbols as I do! He has many more years of experience, but for the most part, we connect in the same manner. The more I do, the better I get at interpreting, just as he did.
They'll always be people that want to pick you apart, and be negative, they come to every show. I have to remember, I do this work for the people that need it, and are healed on this side and the other side of the veil, as well, and I will continue to learn what they want me to know from the other side.

Do you really need to wait a "year" before contacting someone who passed?

Do you really need to wait a "year" before contacting someone who passed? Absolutely NOT!! I recently read a thread from one of the "famous" television mediums, (that I won;t name), who was telling people that they need to wait a year before contacting someone, because they're weak from passing, and it taked them that long to rebuild their energy! That is absolutely NOT TRUE! If a Medium is unable to bring a soul through, regardless of the time since passing, it's the Medium that's weak!
Regardless of when a soul passes, some are stronger than others. The weaker Souls tend to give more symbols that need to be interpreted than words for some reason.That's up to the Medium to work with their Guides to be able to interpret. Every Soul is different, however I've seen them so strong after passing that I need to get out of the way and let them just talk through me!
A perfect example of this, was an 80 year old woman I met, who had been going to Mediums for over 30 years, and no one was able to bring her son through until she found me! He was reluctant to come through, since he had caused his mother considerable pain, she in fact thought she caused his death, and it really destroyed her life. After having him come through, the situation was resolved for both him and her!
When a Medium tells you the Soul is on vacation, busy, not strong enough to come through, or just not around, it's not the Soul, it's the Medium. It can even be a challenge for me, if I'm having an "off" day, but so far, I've been able to bring through 100%, whether they died last week, or ten years ago!

As a matter of fact, everyone I know personally that has passed, has made a point of coming to me immediately after passing, (just to let me know), and I have yet to go to a funeral that didn't have the
deceased standing watch with their loved ones, and sometimes enjoying the show!

Always keep an open mind when trying to connect with your loved ones!

Always try and keep an open mind when trying to connect with your loved ones on the other side. Many times Souls on the other side come through to the Medium the way they looked before they passed on, or the way they thought they looked the best in this lifetime. I have one woman who always comes through as a blond, although she was blond for only about a month during her lifetime. Her family hated it, but she loved it! Immedietlly however, the sitter thought it was not the person he wanted to connect to because of the blond hair. I was able to give him details I would never have known, to confirm who she was.
I recently had another Soul come through very different at one of my last shows. The woman was coming through and trying to make the point to me that she loved things that glittered. She also saw herself living out some fantasy from an old Bogart movie, which was her favorite. She was however, coming through heavy set to me, not thin as she was in this lifetime, We finally figured out, it was because she always saw herself as overweight, and had an eating disorder.
Her family saw her as she was, very thin. She however, even in the afterlife, saw herself as overweight. You need to listen to what they are saying from the other side, and remember, you may not know everything about them that you thought you did!

Why Are My Events Different?

What I've discovered from doing my events, is that most people go to a Gallery Reading of Mediumship, hoping to talk to someone specific. They have an expectation, and when someone different comes through for them, even though they received a message, they feel disappointed! The shows that I've attended, the Medium will speak to whoever comes through, and then hope someone claims them!
It does happen that I have souls  sneak through now and again and need to determine who they are, why they are there, and what their message is, but for the most part, I prefer to bring through the exact person you want to talk to. Most Mediums  apparently are not able to do this very often, I so far, have been able to bring through everyone that I've asked for. Sometimes another relative will come through first, because they can, lol, and usually have a message or want recognition. Sometimes the Soul I'm trying to bring through may be upset with the person asking for them, which makes them a little more stubborn about coming through, but inevitably, I've been able to coax them!

 All in all, I recommend everyone have an open mind when attending an event, because even if you don't receive a reading, or have someone come through, many times the message that comes through is meant for more than one person. They do try and be efficient when they can! I hope you check out my event schedule, and if you're too far away or unable to attend, you can always book a private session in person, by phone, or by skype.

The Spirits in the "tree" souls never want to be forgotten!

A while back a friend came to see me. He was concerned about another friend, who seemed obsessed with a tree that he drives by every day near his house. He was pulled so much to this tree, that he would just sit near it in his car for hours, and started to take branches home that had fallen off onto the ground. He was starting to act like a different person. He was having trouble sleeping, and couldn't think of anything else but the tree.
One look at a picture of the tree, and I knew right away it had been a "hanging tree"! I could picture the poor families from the area, women and children, lined up and hung one by one in the branches. This was done by the Indians in the area at the time of the great Indian wars. I could see and feel the anguish of the men they loved finding them there, and taking them down. There was so much sorrow.
The tree held on to this sorrow. I believe that many of the people were even buried close to the base of the tree. Some of the souls were trapped inside of the tree, since it seemed like a safe and nurtuting place for them. The sadness however still overwhelmed the tree and the area.

I believe that the man taking the branches was reincarnated from the time period, and his family were some of the people hung there. I immediately instructed him to return the branches he had taken, since it was the same as taking something from a grave. He returned the branches, and started to feel better, but still wanted to know more about the people and the connection. He visited the local historian to try and confirm what I had felt.

Within a few months, he was driving by the tree, and saw that it had fallen down. The parks people were removing it. The entire inside of the tree was hollowed out, the space where all the souls were residing. He had a sense of sadness, and at the same time a sense of relief upon seeing this. I believe that once the souls were recognized, and their horror remembered, they realized it was time to be released and move on into the light. No one ever wants to be forgotten. They want to be remembered!